Gum on your shoe!

Its funny right when I delete the guy from my phone that I will be no longer seeing anymore he contacts me like the next day or with in that week! And that would be Surfer Guy, the last update was I fixed him lunch we had a little tiff as I was leaving his pace he said we would try it again tomorrow, I didnt hear from him the next day so I just assumed he was being nice but really "we" were done........WRONG! I think it was a few day's had passed and I get this text from him it said "Hello. How are you?" I freaked out a little, I quickly texted my friend saying Surfer Guy just texted me, she replied "DONT TEXT HIM BACK" than added "wait, tell him to dont contact you he's a jerk face". I went back and forth on to text or not to text but I thought, okay so if I text him and we do try this agian one more time and it works that would be awesome and if doesnt than for sure we were a bad match from the start. I text him back and threw that week we texted and than that Saturday we talked on the phone, I told him I need people to be understading with me because sometimes it takes me a while to form the right words other wise if you rush me a bunch of jumble will come out. He said he needs to work on being chill and more understanding with people in general anyways so he was fine with this, we decided to see each other the next evening. I go over and we make out and watch a short film and than I go home, from than on things where going good, but he wasnt giving me the attention that I was getting the first week we met and I found this to be a little odd, so half of me was sitting back and watching how all this was paying out. Every time we did hang out it was in his bed room and I didnt like this, I felt this was turning into a fuck buddy thing and so I needed to put a stop to this! Last weekend he texted me asking what I was doing for Sat night, I told him nothing and so than he said did I want to come over I said fine, the more we talked I noticed he was acting a little odd so I asked are you drunk he said yes...........red flag? When I arrived he gave me this big hug and said "life is hard, its really really hard" (you dont need to tell me this!!) than he says he's happy I'm hear and we go to his room, he wants to hug more and then we start to make out and stop from time to time and talk, at one point he says he wants me to be his girl friend, NOW I KNOW HE'S DRUNK!!! I laugh and say's okay and than we both fall a sleep. When I left the next morning I thought about what he said, Why did say that, what made him say that?

That Sunday night I developed a fever and chill and soon became as a REALLY REALLY BAD stomach flu, I texted Surfer Guy that night to call me when he got off work. When he called I told him I'm sick......he didn't seem to worried or cared that much, I asked him about work and then I brought up the other night of some of the things he said and I added I know you were drunk and maybe you didn't mean them but they got me thinking. I asked him if we are ever going to do things outside of the bed room or if he likes the way things are, he got really upset about this and as he was talking in my mind I was thinking this is it! This guy has got some problems and I don't want to see him anymore! After when we were done talking he said he would call me tomorrow and I hoped he wouldn't! He didn't..........until Fri morning I get a text saying "Hi?" I thought I got ride of this guy, but I guessed wrong so I texted him back saying "I dont want to talk or hang out with you anymore" he reply's back...
Surfer Guy:"Hello? What happened? Did you meet someone else?"
Me: "No i didnt meet someone else"
Surfer Guy:"Then whats up? Why are you bailing?
Me:"I dont think your really into me the way I have been towards you, also the times that I have upset/annoyed you have kind of scared me and I dont like it."
Surfer Guy:"I'm sorry."

I'm sorry? That was it, I got my answer, he was never really that into me, he never called me the rest of the week to see how I was feeling, overall he never really made it important to get to know me, when I went out of my way to try to get to know him!

Today was Gay Pride and my friends and I went out to celebrate and be supportive also to enjoy the lovely weather, as I was talking with one of the people in our group I get a text from Surfer Guy :"I feel really bad about the way we ended things. I wish we could of hung out more. Thing's have been stressful with my Dad moving far away last Thursday." WTF!!!! My friend was right this guy is weird!! I didnt reply back I TRULY TRULY HOPE this is the last i hear from him because this guy is so mixed up that I dont need it!!

When you get gum on your shoe its really hard to get it off, but once its off its off for good!!